Attorney-client relationships are complicated in divorce. And we're guessing that you hear the same common complaints that we do - clients are frustrated that they aren't able to communicate with their attorney in a way that feels effective.
This week we're talking about some of the issues that contribute to this dynamic and what you, as a coach, can do to support your client in taking steps to improve communication with their attorney.
First, you can assist your client in turning their fears into questions. Rather than dumping all their emotions and anxiety into an email to their attorney, help them distill all of that into a few specific legal questions. That will ensure they get the legal advice and guidance they need in a cost effective way. It will help their attorney help them.
Next, you can work with your client to get back in touch with their own power. Especially for those that are coming out of relationships where there's been a power imbalance, they may be deferring to their attorney because they see them as being in power over them.
And finally, you're a great thinking partner to help them assess if it's a relationship that can be turned around or if they'd like to interview some other attorneys to see if they want to look for someone who's a better fit.
No matter what kind of frustration your client is experiencing, your coaching skills can support them in identifying their fears, distilling specific questions, editing emails, sitting in on meetings, and making decisions about changing attorneys. You have the ability to help them take back control of their own divorce process.
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